Another Good Day

I went to the club in Quito Tennis with Fer yesterday. It was fun. We laughed. We talked a lot. We hung out by the pool and went to the steam room. She's a good friend. She reminds me of Sonja. But, with Sonja we never did that stuff. We just walked. Strange when Think back at that. We never did anything different. Or we never talked on the phone. Our relationship was kind of limited in a way. Maybe it was me. I wasn't in the best place. I really just started getting better when they left. But, I'm better now. Much better. I feel good. Sure, that may change when I leave Ecuador but I can enjoy it for now. Like really enjoy it. I will go to Italy, my only trip this year. I will climb cayambe and Chimborazo. I will explore. I will hopefully find love. 

I'm grateful for...

- Sergio

- Family 

- Patty 

- Fer and friends I am making 

- Sense of community with work and cycling

- My job and my team

- My health physically, mentally, and emotionally 

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