Chapter 15 -

Over the years I have created a pretty good support system. Jean my mentor, Kat my spiritual healer, Elizabeth my psychologist. I've grown so much because of them. Most of all they all have been working on the same thing. Managing triggers of my wounds. Kat has helped me understand that Papi also had a past, a difficult one and I am carrying some of that without any intention from him. We did a constellation session and I understood that Papi's father had a strong positive energy, that Tia Nana had a gift, and that maybe I do too. It's through helping people. Maybe sh never got to practice it a sa maid in Canada, maybe that's what I am supposed to do. That's my meaning. 

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